So you’ve broken up with your girlfriend. If you’re asking yourself “Can I get my ex girlfriend back?” then the breakup probably wasn’t so devastating that you think the relationship can’t be saved. Well you will have to hope she feels the same way. If you caused your ex girlfriend any hurt during the break up that you should apologize for, now’s the time to be a man and say you’re sorry. Saying you’re sorry and sincerely showing it is a good first step towards getting your ex back.

Can I get my ex girlfriend back by being sensitive?

Well, there’s no guarantee you’ll get back together, but the odds are more your favor when you do things right. Here’s how. First of all show her how much you miss her. If the split up was your fault then show her how sorry you are. Pay attention to what she does. If your notice that these things make her angry then change your tactics until you find something she responds to. If you’re not responsive to her you won’t know the signs so pay attention to her.

If you find that card or flowers frustrate her, maybe that’s because she sees it as easy to pick up the phone and order flowers or buy a card that someone else wrote. There isn’t much you personally put into those deeds. Be creative and try to figure out something that will be more appealing to her. For example, make it more personal by getting a blank card and write your own verse in it. It doesn’t have to rhyme, in fact it’s better if it doesn’t. Try to honestly express how you feel. You can even pick flowers and present her with a bouquet you put together yourself. The personal touch goes a long way.

Can I get my ex girlfriend back by dating other girls?

If it’s been a while since your broke up with your ex and you’re still working on being thoughtful, a casual date may make her wish she was your date. But don’t go too far because it could backfire. So go easy.

Can I get my ex girlfriend back if she has a boyfriend?

Unfortunately the odds are against you, but if you can show her that she’ll be happier with you than the new boyfriend you’ll have a good chance. Being thoughtful will go a long way toward showing her that. Even if it seems hopeless, don’t give up.

If it appears she’s moved on, still send her a card you wrote just wishing her a great week. But don’t look as if you have any expectations. Your thoughtfulness might really impress her.