You desperately want your ex girlfriend back so, you ask how do I get back with my ex girlfriend? First you have to realize that the circumstance is quite fragile. Both of you are hurting and perhaps angry. You have to tread carefully so as not to make the situation worse than it already is.

Consider the following factors as you try to plan on how to get back with your ex girlfriend.

1 - First of all, determine the cause of the break up? Was it because of something that you did? Girls do not just initiate a breakup without a valid reason so you will have to think back to determine what caused it. Then you have to analyze if you could have stopped it from happening and how you will deal with it.

2 - Knowing that you were responsible for the breakup, the first step you have to take is to tell your ex that you acknowledge that what happened was your mistake and that you apologize for your actions and its outcome.

3 - You should go on with your social life and try meeting old friends and new people as well. Even if you are trying to win your ex back does not mean you have to isolate yourself from other people. Going out with friends or even casual dates may be good for you as it may stir up jealousy in your ex.

4 - You should work on normalizing your life while letting her know that you have not stopped caring for her. This could be the best way to win her back. You have to convince her that you still love her and have not given up hope that you can still get back together. She will see then that you have matured and this will make you more attractive to her.

5 - Lastly, it is vital to be able to rebuild the friendship between you. This will also re-establish the trust which could bring you closer whic could pave the way to reconciliation.

At an opportune time, you could inquire why she broke up with you casually. She could either tell you that the breakup was a mistake or she could also tell you that it was a timely move and you can be better just as friends. From there you would know if it will be possible to continue your plan on how to get back with my ex girlfriend.